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How to understand a person!

Let's say the person talks in two different states of mind: 1. happy 2. sad/angry There may be many emotions but try to consider it in the given two different states. Now whichever state of mind the person would be but sometimes they say something which is hurtful for us and it gets stuck on our mind. So the simple solution to it is to ask the person the next day about that thing and what exactly he/she wanted to say. Tell that you had been hurt by that statement. Can you please clarify it for me? Then take whatever action needed to be taken. Also sometimes the person gives the immediate reaction to any situation which may be right or wrong. Thus to maintain the relation easily the clarity is must in between two people. Also sometimes someone will tell something about that person or something happens or something said in pressure from a situation or any person like shown in the movie (forcefully told to say something) which is not right for you at all and you feel bad, at the time ...

Obsession breaks you!

A person or something gets stuck to you for the mind and it keeps there for the whole day. You keep thinking of that person or situation making you feel bad that why did that happen or why did that person say that you. Sometimes what you are thinking is not the intention of that person at all, but still you are considering it true and hurting yourself. The whole day it feels very bad why the person is not talking with me, what have I done wrong. Obsession occurs when you get attached to the person or the thing which is very bad. One solution is to talk with the person and clear it out. It will clear a little bit but will create new circumstances in your mind which will affect you and make you feel upset and sad for the whole day. It will break you! One solution is that get attached to anything or any activity which is not dependent on anyone and is totally in control of you like watching a series or playing a game in which you will definitely thus you will feel accomplished after winni...