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Quotes

1. I don't know what you are thinking but I can say one thing for sure that it is not what I am thinking - Aditya Pooji 2. I don't know what you may have assumed, but it can be far away from the truth; so better ask than to judge! - Aditya Pooji 3. We loved with all our heart, but they couldn't handle it properly. - Aditya Pooji 4. I didn't expect much from you, I just wanna see that smiling face once a day! - Aditya Pooji 5. We did it very heartily, but they took it as a formality. - Aditya Pooji 6. We don't want what we need, but we are doing what needed to be done. - Aditya Pooji 7. Relation doesn't matter, if your efforts are good; mine will be best. - Aditya Pooji 8. Dont try to change anyone with your good intentions, it will backfire on you only. - Aditya Pooji 9. Toxic people don't own up to their own mistakes but will point out others mistakes for sure! - Aditya Pooji 10. Create your own happiness asap otherwise you will be sad your whole life! - Ad...

Why we have to pretend to be okay if we are not?

 You want to be real to the world. But the world is not ready to be real. So you have to pretend yourself, according to the worlds need then you can survive otherwise you will get hurt only at the end. You have to keep your real feelings aside and have to show what the world wants to see. For example, if you don't like someone with whom you have to stay for the whole life, you just can't say it directly. You have to pretend to be ok with the person then it will become reality. This way only you and others can live happily. Otherwise, you just can't live easily. It's just hard to share your inner feelings openly with anyone in this fake world that starts from home members only. You have to learn staying strong by yourself only. Then only you and your surroundings can remain good.

Efforts

 When you are doing so much effort for the people around you, but you are not receiving any love or care from the people including the friends and the family because they are busy with their own struggles in the life. So they also cannot be blamed. Keep doing the effort for not receiving it back but just do the good deeds. But yeah the main point is never get hurt from other's action or no reaction. It is very bad if you get hurt from it.

Overthinking

Yes, it is overthinking. You are thinking a lot about life. We have to just leave it as it is by taking important actions which needed to required.

Why can't we speak as we think?

Why the person have to pretend? Why they can't be just straight forward or real? Everyone has to pretend in some or other way. Why can't we be real and can say whatever there is in the mind? We have to think before speaking in front of everyone including friends and families. If you have anyone with whom you can speak what you think trust you are so lucky.