Why we have to pretend to be okay if we are not?

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 You want to be real to the world. But the world is not ready to be real. So you have to pretend yourself, according to the worlds need then you can survive otherwise you will get hurt only at the end. You have to keep your real feelings aside and have to show what the world wants to see. For example, if you don't like someone with whom you have to stay for the whole life, you just can't say it directly. You have to pretend to be ok with the person then it will become reality. This way only you and others can live happily. Otherwise, you just can't live easily. It's just hard to share your inner feelings openly with anyone in this fake world that starts from home members only. You have to learn staying strong by yourself only. Then only you and your surroundings can remain good.

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